Should I Confront My Wife About Affair? TEN years ago I fell in love with a girl. She was 22 years younger than me and I was married. But the love I felt for her then - and still do - was overwhelming. So I left my wife for her. It was messy and my two grown-up children made it clear they wanted nothing to do with me after what I had done to their mum. I felt guilty but the dust settled and after the divorce I married my second wife. It was the happiest day of my life. We now have an eight-year-old and I've managed to patch things up with the older ones. My wife is 37 and I'll be 60 this year. The problem is I have been having trouble sustaining an erection. I'm taking Viagra which helps, but I don't have the same energy I used to have. I'm almost certain my wife is having an affair. We had a young guy, in his twenties, help get the garden in our new house into shape and I could see he was attracted to her. She's still an amazing-looking woman and doesn't look a year older than when I first saw her. She's been getting texts which she deletes immediately and I know for a fact when she told me she was round at her mum's that it was a lie. So I'm worried sick. I know I should tackle her about what's going on but I can't. I can't live without her and I don't like the thought of my ex-wife, most of my friends and my relatives pointing out that they all told me the age gap was too big and we wouldn't last. OF course you could carry on as you are with your head buried in the sand. There is the possibility your wife isn't having an affair or even if she is, it isn't serious and will soon blow itself out. Your problem keeping an erection could be affecting self-confidence and putting your imagination into overdrive. In some ways, sitting tight might be the sensible thing to do, especially as you have a young child but no intention of ending the marriage. But I don't think you can live with the uncertainty forever. Maybe you should give yourself a deadline of a few months. If you remain suspicious or get more solid evidence, I don't believe you can go on ignoring the issue. If she wants to save the marriage, counselling through Relate Scotland or Scottish Marriage Care is the next step. But if things can't be fixed, there's no point trying to glue it together just because you don't want those who warned you against marrying a younger woman crowing. If you have a problem, write to: Just Joan, Daily Record, One Central Quay, Glasgow G3 8DA or email j.burnie@dailyrecord.co.uk. I cannot reply personally. sildenafil citrate tablets
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